By: Raúl Espino
A fetish does not have to be solely sexual. Although they can ignite the body and mind for this purpose, many of them serve to feel a greater attraction to someone. They are special and very personal details.
Art: Art, both practiced and enjoyed, attracts many men and women. Men or women with books under their arms, with cultured verbiage and who know how to handle artistic elements denote a very sensual sensitivity. The activities of photographing (the position is attractive), painting (inner emotions are manifested in the execution of the brushstrokes) and playing the guitar (a skill with bohemian touches, free-spirited) triumph in this regard and are requirements for some men and women. The bohemian essence of singer-songwriters with “rollito” and bitter-looking naive girls is in high demand among a certain sector of society
Teeth: Teeth are a world and even philosophical treatises could be made about them. Although the ideal of society seems to be linked to the perfection of the teeth, many people are attracted to men and women with imperfect teeth, whether they are mounted or suffer from diastema (separated teeth). We are not talking about the typical convict’s rotten teeth, but about something more or less decent that, due to small details, is less than perfect.
Flow: What is flow? It’s style, it’s good vibes, it’s: “That guy is cool.” It is a succession of details that explode simultaneously; it is the way of being, light as well as groundbreaking, which embraces the way of dressing, the accessories, the movements, the looks, the humor… It is living without limits, from the pose to the decisions. It is a philosophy of life that is innate and that is enhanced with music, dance, images…It has a strong urban component, suburban chic, caps, graffiti, tattoos and piercings. They are Justin Timberlake and Bruno Mars. They are Alicia Keys and Rihanna.
They are all members of the Black Eyed Peas. People with flow don’t walk or run… They glide through the world like the “Kings of Mambo”, even though they don’t even intend to be. They are human art with a thug touch. And this, like it or not, is seductive material for many young people today. Wide clothes, skates or bicycles are some of the accessories that reign in this general fetish.
Smell: We all like good smells in people, but there are always types of smell: more acidic, sweeter, stronger, more innocent. The smell of man, the smell of a wild woman, the smell of cleanliness, the smell of nature, the smell of cream after a shower… We must not forget that men’s sweat is exciting for women due to the action of pheromones . In general, cloying odors are not usually successful.There are smells that electrify and attract like magnets, sometimes inexplicably, especially when associated with a person who already likes them for other reasons. At that point, the fetish becomes a shower of fireworks.
Beard: The beard in men has become a fetish. They and they melt with House’s three-day beard or the populated hair mass that hipsters have implanted. Denotes manhood, freedom and wisdom. Also with some swirl. A good beard is the mark of a lumberjack. They smell like a California forest. It is a perfect game between underground philosophy and pure masculinity. Before her, the boys and girls of the 21st century have no choice but to applaud.
Hands and feet: The hands have to be taken care of. In them, painted nails point to a provocative, almost feline instinct, although many also enjoy half-painted nails. Also, the hands of the girls must be delicate, regardless of a more or less powerful personality. Their hands must be very masculine, that is, with a protruding vein, large, and with the ability to lay bricks as well as sign laws. In this sense, imperfections (hardness, scars) that indicate some kind of effort and relaxation in the face of life’s dangers are also welcome.Feet, strange as it may seem, are the fetish of many men or women, especially if they have a preference for girls. Girls’ feet tend to be more cared for and appear in erotic environments. And, if not, tell Tarantino, a confessed and proven foot fetishist (in all his films bare feet appear in close-up).
Big clothes: The oversize style is wonderful in women. When a woman deals with some masculine garment, they become light and, above all, they end up being part of one if those clothes belong to them and they are men. But everyone likes it. Why? It’s naughty. A girl in baggy clothes knows what she’s doing, whether it’s sweaters, T-shirts or pants. To some it gives a masculine air in terms of informality, without losing an iota of femininity.
