By: Tanya Sanchez
In any personal relationship, attitudes arise that should not be overlooked, but especially in those of a partner, which are accompanied by low self-esteem or fear of losing that person.
Being minimized as a person: We are all different and being in a relationship should not be a reason for this person to minimize you, this applies to tastes and values. Do not allow this attitude even once, you deserve respect and be valued to the fullest. Does not respect your feelings: If every time you mention how you feel about something that happened in the relationship, he just ignores you, it is definitely an attitude that you should not let go. Someone who really loves you or cares about how you feel will listen to you and see if they can do something about it.
That he compares you with another person: Comparing yourself with other people very often is not an attitude that you should let go, since that only indicates one thing, that he enjoys making you feel uncomfortable at the least expected moment, so the first time he releases the type of comments confront him. He punishes you with the law of the cold: When something does not seem to him and there are problems, this person instead of speaking to find solutions and listen to the points of view, gets angry and applies the law of the ice to you, that is not a mature attitude, On the contrary, it talks about the lack that it does in your relationship and this type of behavior should not be passed.
That you are never their priority: Of course from time to time it is okay for this person to want to spend time alone or go out with friends or family, but that is very different from never making plans with you, if this is happening in your relationship, it is worth the It’s a pity that you wonder if they should continue together.
