By: Mayra Navarrete
The first date, with yourself “Everything starts from you and ends with you, it is the projection that gives you back the image you are generating. By understanding that everything is in you, you have the possibility of taking charge of your emotional states and establishing relationships based on energetic and loving harmony, and not on feelings of need, guilt or lack” Delve into who we are, what we want and how we We see is the first step, the world is a projection of ourselves, a mirror of immediate reflection, just like the couples with whom we end up having a relationship.
Search the unconscious: it is true that on many occasions what we want consciously and the efforts we make to achieve certain goals, it seems that they do not give results no matter what we do. Perhaps, the obstacle lies in the fact that deep down we are not so sure of that, from a subconscious level and we are emitting opposite messages. “One of the reasons you don’t attract a satisfying relationship into your life is because you’re giving off mixed signals, that’s the mystery. The energy never lies, you are sending a very confusing message to the other person, to the universe and to yourself
Three seconds that change your life Our brain has a special taste for melodrama and for strengthening negative beliefs, but they are not set in stone, from the pages of her book, the astrologer recommends an infallible exercise in psychology that many experts recommend: falling asleep with thoughts positive, because when we wake up our brain will reconnect with them and put us in a wonderful mood to start the day with other sensations. “Just before bed, at the moment when you are so relaxed that you are about to fall asleep, you have an incredible opportunity for your last thought to go towards creating your new life.
Reprogram yourself With simple and direct phrases so that your brain does not get lost, in the same way that the repeated mention of our failures and fears end up nesting in our beliefs, whether false or true, so can positive beliefs with the same ease.
• I am real, beautifully imperfect, peculiarly beautiful, and truly magical.
• I am a beautiful and worthy person to be loved.
• I recover my feminine power right now.
• My heart is open, I abandon all resistance.
• Couple love is a wonderful experience.
• My relationships are healthy and stimulating.• I love myself unconditionally.
•I love being a woman A matter of time It is essential that your agenda is prepared to make room for love, free time and yourself. It doesn’t matter if you find a great partner if in the end your commitments don’t let you develop it with the quality it needs. “When we meet someone we have to spend time with them, and if they don’t exist in your life, that person simply won’t come” Cut the (invisible) ties with your ex In love it is necessary, to start a new relationship that is not weighed down by the previous one, that each story begins when all the past plots are closed. Surely you think that the relationship is already more than finished, but because that is true from a physical plane, dig deeper and ask yourself if it is in a deep way. “If you feel that there are still invisible ties that bind you to a previous relationship, it is necessary to let it go with the power of your intention. The antidote is to spend a good time alone doing a deep healing. There are meditations that are very effective in letting go of previous relationships, as they work directly with our second energy center, which is located in the womb area. That is where we accumulate the sexual energy of our partners. The ideal is to use the energy of the black moon, two days before the new moon, since it is a perfect energetic and emotional moment to do introspection, because we are more perceptive and intuitive”.
Balance your masculine and feminine energies In the world of astrology, the twelve signs would make up a whole that represents the human being, hence they are divided into masculine and feminine, due to their energies, it is not a matter of gender. Knowing the energies of your horoscope gives you the keys to where you tend to tend. “The masculine signs are Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius and Aquarius, and they are associated with extroversion, action, the drive to conquer and activity. They do something outward, they are oriented to the future and they leave their mark on the world. When they want something, they go for it, instead of waiting for it to happen. The feminine signs are Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces, and they are associated with introversion, receptivity, attraction, stability, and are oriented to the past. They act in a subtle and reserved way, receiving a mark from the world. We all have both energies within us, regardless of our gender. The planets are in charge of tuning in with the different vibrations, and depending on them, we will express certain qualities at the expense of others.”
Do not turn your back on Mars Because it is blocking the masculine energy that enables you to take control and go for what you want, it is action in its purest form. Perhaps you are not aware that you are out of step, Sara Gomar gives us some clues to discover if this is the case:
• “You are always available when your partner wants to see you: remember that you have your own life, your friends and your plans with them. Don’t give up everything for that person.”
• “If you always just agree with your partner, let him make all the decisions and force yourself to do things you don’t feel like doing, feelings of resentment and dissatisfaction will eventually build up.”
• “It is very important that you work on your self-knowledge, because only if you know who you are will you be able to find out what you want, and once you know what you want, you will be able to make the right decisions, both in love and in life.”
• “Always remember that you should not accept less than you deserve, do not associate with anyone who does not give you the same love that you give them. A person who does not respect your time and considers you their last resort is not worth it. If the person you like doesn’t give you the place you want, it’s time to rethink that story.”
• “The meter to find out if something has already completed its cycle is the desire. If you look at it, it makes you indifferent and you no longer feel the spark you used to feel, oh, friend! You are in a bind.”
• “If you refrain from doing something you like because of what people will say, because it doesn’t upset you, because you don’t go outside the guidelines, or because others don’t like it or don’t think it’s good, you’ll end up regretting it.”
• “The antidote to this scenario is none other than learning to be alone. Being single for a good season prepares you to have a healthy relationship in the future, since it is a unique opportunity to focus on yourself.”
Reconnect with yourself, with your feminine side. It is genuinely your creative depth, so connecting with that part is much easier than it may seem at first, these small gestures, which the astrologer advises us, will help you achieve it.
• “Connect with music that makes you vibrate, dance, sing, let go of control…”
• “Go out to the forest for a walk, for the mind, feel nature, look at the moon, observe the stars, awaken your senses…”
• “Enjoy a sunset or a sunrise.”• “Go outside and feel the rain, the sun or the wind on your skin.”• “Find a way to connect with nature in a way that is easy for you and makes you feel good…”
• “You feel that there is nothing to do, there are no goals, there is only now, there is nothing to prove, you just have to be…”
• “Release the tension in your shoulders, let go of everything, breathe and inhale…”
• “Remember that you are always growing, changing and adapting, and that makes you beautiful…”
• “Take a deep breath and let the vibrations calm you down. With a deep breath, let go of everything that no longer serves you. With each exhalation, release your fears. Breathing is essential to get into a state of connection with what surrounds you and helps you open space in your mind and body, and, by extension, in your life. It will free you from muscle tension, anxiety and any blockage you may have accumulated.”
• “Feel gratitude in your heart every day and the universe will start giving you more beautiful things to be thankful for.
